Understanding

A person is very "understanding".. they "know" what to say when nd what to do when nd where.. some ppl are just so "awake to the situation"..

we drop terms so easily, without thinking or having deep knowledge about the weightage they carry.. true, words dont mean a thing.. but when being used, it is important to put them where they belong..

Human beings have a big big problem.. and that is the very deep rooted belief that they DO have problems.. People who feel very traumatized by emotions, hurt by other "insensitive" people, humiliated by words spoken or actions performed against them, are definitely not in a position to be blamed.. they are but the victims of themselves and of the rest of the society..

A person is liked by many people when he/she is "polite", "caring", "understanding", "straighforward", "honest", etc etc..

but a person with all such characterisctics can still become the villain if he is honest at the "wrong time" or truthful when he "should know better"..

so what is the point, or where do all the good qualities disappear in such situations?? why is it tat a person who sticks to these morals and values is criticised for living upto the very qualities tat are praised and spoken about??

the answer does not lie in questioning the traits, or the person.. the answer lies within the delicately carved framework that humans called "society".. many minds, together form certain rules and divisions which, everybody is expected to fall into.. these become social rules and moral ethical codes that ppl "should" follow for a healthy living.. 

any person who speaks their mind out is scorned by the majority who strongly believe in these rules as it means lesser resposibility on the individual..

so who is ultimately the person who "understands"??

THAT would be the one individual who realises how futile the social framework is, and just does what they as an individual believe is right.. As these traits come from the true self of the individual, therefore there's no unrealistin notion in wat they do..

this absolute reality is wat comes out nd therefore, anythin they do comes without bein held back.. they do what they believe they should and not wat society expects out of them..

here, it must be said that such a true person can never be a real "boon" to society as very soon, the same society that hails him would be the first to convict him of being sincere.. it will tarnish nd toture him for bein tru to his self nad scorn him..

the true realised being, knows how futile society really is, nd is therefore unaffected and continues being the epitome of virtue..

such a person is a real person who "understands", is "caring nd compassionate", who is truly "affectionate" and is completely at peace with himself..