Alone?? GREAT!!

Ppl have got to get many things straightened out..

Acc to me, the most important thing would be the "emotional" concept of LONELINESS or being ALONE..

for starts, the two are completely different from each other..

Loneliness is a state of emotional imbalance where the mind searches unsuccessfully for companionship in others. Loneliness is extremely unhealthy and HAS to be rooted out. Many ppl today suffer from this, which is why we have so many ego clashes, rivalry, jealousy, etc etc. 

Being ALONE, on the other hand, is spendin time with yourself.. understanding yourself and observing yourself.. it is a very healthy trend and helps u keep a check on yourself.. it gives u more strength and helps u challenge your fears and problems.. Morre time we spend with ourselves, the better we become..

There is a lot of confusion between these two terms.. it has been messed up time and again.. most people believe that the only real way to live is being surrounded by loving, caring ppl, friends, ppl u can fall back on, etc etc etc..

Agreed.. such a life is very good.. but the more u depend on others, the more mentally strained u become.. When you begin to get affected by things like ppl callin you names, teasing, ragging, etc, it shows how weak u are mentally.. U appear as a person who does not trust himself/herself and cannot fallback on yourself for support..

The greatest leaders are ppl who believed in themselves.. u do need ppl around u to support u, true.. but not havin such ppl doesnt mean u are not worth it..

Ppl have this "need" to be wanted and appreciated.. but once u become strong mentally, even if the whole world hates you, u will still stand and fight..

automatically, others who sense the strength within you will come towards you.. they will look up to you to overcome their own fears.. U will liberate them..

Spend time alone.. Why confuse with loneliness.. loneliness comes from desire.. desire is probably the worst of all psychological issues we have to deal with.. spend time alone..

Switch off your cell phones for abt half an hour everyday..

take a walk without your ipod..

breathe fresh air and feel the goodness..

You will find your inner silence..

Find that and NOTHING can shake u or break you..

U Stand by ourself.. its YOUR life.

:)